3 Most Important Questions

3 Most Important Questions

Perhaps my favorite woo-woo resource is Mindvalley Academy. Their founder Vishen Lakhiani has a powerful practice of asking yourself what he considers to be the three most important questions.

Darcy’s 3 Most Important Questions

1.What experiences/objects do you want to have in this lifetime?

  • I am creating a loving marriage, where we grow and thrive together. I feel connected and loved. I feel joyful and passionate in my marriage. I create the deepest possible partnership.
  • I am a present and passionate mother. I am a haven of joy and connectedness for my children. I am able to help them each reach their unique unlimited potential.
  • I have a peaceful and beautiful home. I maintain a calm and uncluttered environment. I work on home projects that bring beauty into our lives. I work to create our “wish list.”
  • I am transforming McClure Park into a magical natural playground for kids of all ages. Create an amazing open space to play and reconnect with nature and community.
  • I have friends who are a joy to be around and who support us in times of need. I have spontaneous “play-dates” and family traditions that bond us together forever.
  • I am generous of my time/energy/love, knowing that we are all connected and giving because it makes me feel good.
  • I love to travel and explore. We have amazing family vacations where we visit fun places, meet wonderful people and give back to the world.
    • Denmark as often as I want
    • Hawaii every few years – alternating with family and as a couple
    • Norwegian cruise (+Amsterdam & Denmark!)
    • South Africa/East Africa
    • Wales/Ireland/England
    • Australia/New Zealand
    • Galapagos
    • Guatemala
    • Machu Picchu
    • Nepal
    • Costa Rica
    • Iceland
    • Spain/Portugal
    • Paris
    • Rome
    • Vienna/Prague/Budapest
    • Greece
    • Glacier, Yellowstone, Grand Canyon, Denali
    • Baja
  • I love getting outside as much as possible. I love going on family hikes and bike rides. I love to go camping and rafting and sailing.
  • I am happy to learn how to sail again, fixing up Caledonia, teaching my family and connecting with new sailing friends.
  • I am happy raft all the major rivers in the Cascadia.
  • I am happy about becoming certified to scuba dive.
  • I look forward to helping create a family/community center.
  • I am excited about creating an outdoor co-op.
  • I love being an inspiring public speaker.
  • I am happy to express myself as a writer.
  • I am a successful blogger with thousands of readers.
  • I look forward to driving a convertible to the beach.
  • I am happy to visit vineyards for wine tasting tours.
  • I look forward to walking the whole Oregon Coast.
  • I look forward to teaching water aerobics, having fun and being fit.
  • I love to bicycle, swim or do yoga almost every day.
  • I can hardly wait to go on a yoga retreat.
  • I am excited to give my kids the best education possible for them to reach their potential. I will help them travel and explore the world, and to find unique ways to give back through their talents.
  • I am excited to become a millionaire and create a charity trust.
  • I know that I will leave a legacy of love and wisdom. I will leave traditions and stories. I will leave “toys” for my kids to play with and enough money for them to pursue their passions.
  • I am creating create my perfect home, including everything on my wish list.
  • I can hardly wait to meet Ben Harper, Jack Johnson and Brett Dennen.
  • I am love our beach cabin investment and am maximizing it’s potential.
  • I am excited to create a retreat center.
  • I am happy to be swapping our home with amazing people.

2. How do you want to grow?

  • I radiant pure joy.
  • I feel deep integrity.
  • I glow from the inside.
  • I smile to myself and strangers.
  • I feel fit and fabulous.
  • I meditate daily.
  • I am grateful for the gift of each moment and rejoice in flow.
  • I feel connected to the universe and the divine.

3. How do you want to contribute to the world?

  • I am a present and loving mother.
  • I inspire other parents and families.
  • I create/live solutions to global warming and environmental issues.
  • I am creating a tribe of outdoor enthusiasts.
  • I share joy and love and fun.
  • I want to make the world a more beautiful place.

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Miel’s 3 Most Important Questions

1. What experiences/objects do you want to have in this lifetime?

  • Spend time with Adam connecting
  • Play with Clark and be a good example to him
  • Live in an incredible home in Portland, Oregon.
  • Transform tiny house into InStove PDX
  • Own numerous homes throughout the world
  • Travel regularly and create life long connections around the world

2. How do you want to grow?

  • Refine my leadership skills
  • Become an exceptional public speaker
  • Write every day
  • Exercise routinely and challenge myself to take on new experiences
  • Be a great mother
  • Be a giving and loving partner
  • Take routinely great care of myself
  • Mediate regularly
  • Give more time to life

3. How do you want to contribute to the world?

  • Transform InStove into a multi-million dollar enterprise
  • Give back through my estate
  • Serve as a Rotarian
  • Create Ama’s Village in Ghana
  • Create fabulous spaces throughout the world and share them with others
  • Share about myself and be an inspiration to others
  • Be of public service and take on global leadership
  • Be a great partner and share humanity
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